La lettera di una lavoratrice sessuale a Tits and Sass e le risposte di alcune sex worker su come gestire la relazione professionale con un cliente innamorato. Vi siete mai trovat* in situazioni simili (come sex worker o come clienti)? Che risposta avreste dato alla lettera?

Dear Tits & Sass: Overly Attached Client Edition
by suzyhooker on October 16, 2012

Dear Tits and Sass,
Last February, I met Phil off a sugar dating site. He was extremely effusive in quasi-personal affection towards me during our first meeting, to the point that I realized he was an attachment risk and considered not seeing him again. (He’d had a recent and extremely nasty divorce.) But I agreed to a monthly arrangement of x dollars/month for indefinite weekly meetings and saw him three times total. In addition to sex, he wanted an intellectual relationship.

Between our meetings, Phil frequently wrote me vaguely romantic emails, with very familiar addresses and conclusions (things like “dear love,” etc.). I am married and he knew that. Eventually he was sending me such intense emails that I concluded he actually thought he had fallen for me. The last piece of evidence for me that things had gone too far was when I went over to his house and found a picture of myself on his mantel: He had learned my real name from a careless mistake I made, found my Facebook, and got the picture from there.

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